I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I have decided to try to give this relationship another shot, but I can’t help but continuously wonder if he thought she was sexier, was she better than me in bed, etc. My esteem took a nosedive as well. How do I get past the thoughts of him with this other girl and comparing myself to her? Has anyone ever stayed with their boyfriend after he cheated on you? How did you get past it and did the relationship last?