So I’m at a touristy type/barber shop with my girlfriend. We are both getting our hair done and my girlfriend says that she heard one of the girls that worked at the barber shop performed oral sex on my husband. (In real life, my husband cheated on me once before we got married and in waking life I am not worried that he will do it again. I trust him.) Back to the dream. I’m mortified and unbelievably upset. I try to call him but his number isn’t in my phone. So I try to punch in his number, I remember seeing the screen on my phone very clearly as I try to punch in his number over and over again, but somehow the wrong buttons are pushed. I cant seem to type in the right numbers. I’m getting very irritated by this and decide to go find him on my own. i end up finding him and start questioning him about said girl. I think I asked him something like “Have you been hooking up with other women?” or something. He’s avoiding the question and being catty with me, but he finally admits to it. I start beating him in this alley/parking lot type thing. I’m hitting him over and over again, this unbearable rage comes over me. I beat him for a long time when finally he says “okay, okay…” And I stop. I throw my ring at him. The scene changes and I’m walking up stairs to my mom, she asks if I’m okay and I say I’m fine, even though I’m crying. The scene changes again and we’re at the police station. I’m with a very close friend. My husband is drunk and being obnoxious.
For some reason he was responsible for us, and since he’s drunk he can’t drive us home. (I dont know why we were at the police station). The cops are calling people to come get us. I say I can take care of myself, and I run away with my girl friend. I remember telling the cops that we weren’t with my husband and we can take care off ourselves. I was still livid with him about the cheating thing. We’re running down another alley that resembles some of the alleys of the town I grew up in. My husband is following us. For some reason my girlfriend and I are both wearing a Captain America costume. My husband catches up and my girlfriend disappears. I’m crying still, but allow my husband to put his arm around me. I feel safe. He keeps trying to pinch my butt but I tell him to stop because I’m crying. I feel overwhelmed with love and anger. We hear the cops as we’re walking up more stairs to get out of the alley, and we try to hide behind a bush, but I’m wearing a Captain America costume so the cop sees us. Then I wake up.\

Please help me figure this out! I had this dream only a few days after
we got married. Both my husband and I still wonder what it might mean. He used to have a drinking problem which is why he cheated on me.

what would you think if your girlfriend or boyfriend was myspace messageing another girl or boy about whether or not they are single… and if they want to go out to lunch sometime??? would you think he or she was cheating on you??? or that they were just friends??? if the person you were dating asked the other person those questions what would you think was going on??? be honest please!! i need your help.

One of the biggest challenges most women will face when starting out with the intention of catching a cheating husband is to keep their emotions under control. Believe it or not, keeping your cool is the secret of how to catch a cheating husband.

But you already know that, so it’s really no big secret. But the fact remains that you’re upset, confused, undecided on what to do, and you’re just not thinking straight. And of course there are all the unknowns that are just eating you up inside:

– Is he cheating?

– What are the signs of infidelity?

– What should I be looking for?

Added on top of that is the fact that you’ve busted your butt trying to save this relationship and make it work. Even to the point of making excuses for him and trying to avoid finding out the truth.

Right now you’re probably going nuts and are having a lot of sleepless nights with all of these thoughts constantly running through your mind.

But understand this, the worst thing you can do right now is to confront him. It’s best to maintain a clear and level head since you’ll be piecing together whatever rock-solid evidence and/or concrete proof you need. Because without it the cheating husband gets away with it.

The honest to goodness truth is that your cheating husband probably thinks that he’s too smart for you and that you’ll never figure it out. On the other hand, if you’re too emotional when confronting him, he can use it against you. He” just take it all in stride, feed you what you want to hear, and everything will be all forgotten.

However, if you keep your cool, that won’t happen. Because when you bring the lies to the light and reveal the truth, you’re in a better position to deal with it. Then you can weigh out your options, get everything out on the table, and see if you have a marriage that’s worth putting back together. Whether it’s for the kid’s sake or because you made a vow, until death do you part.

There may be hundreds of tell-tale signs of his infidelity confronting you every day. But many of them, if not all, would still be just speculation. That’s why you need concrete proof.

Get yourself someone to mentor you, who is a qualified and expert detective in this field. This way you won’t have to hire a private detective who will charge you by the hour, and take days or weeks putting together an investigation that you can do for yourself in just a few hours or so.

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