My husband and I have been through a lot in our 20+ years of marriage. I recently found out he has been cheating on me again. I have tried talking to him and giving him the chance to come clean, but he won’t take it. I don’t know how much longer I can take the stress.

I am a 25 year old mommy that lives in california, i found out that my spouse was cheating on me but i dont want to brack up my family because my children love there dad. please help me what should I do ????

I recently found out my husband has been lying to me for 4 months and cheating, not paying bills, etc.
Ladies-what is the best revenge, I mean absolute brutal revenge-without going to jail of course?haha
MEN-what is the worst ever done to you?
serious answers please!
And by the way-he is already OUT OF HERE! and divorce cannot be soon enough! BUT of all the dirty lies he has told-our home will be foreclosed soon, as he has not been making the payments he claimed he was making.
I STILL WANT REVENGE! yes i’m bitter, but get real-who wouldn’t be?

I was just wondering how many people have given their spouse a 2nd chance once that spouse cheated on them, and did it work out? And if it did work out then how long did it take to start trusting them again and do you still ever wonder what they are out doing? Do you ever love them the same?